Saturday, February 9, 2008

2008 I.T. & KNOWLEDGE VISION

2008 I.T. & KNOWLEDGE VISION

VISION 1: THE HARDWARE:
COMPUTER-INTERNET IN EVERY HOME
Bay Benjie,
TIME FOR COMPUTER INSTALMENT HAS COME AND WILL BE HERE TO STAY QUITE FOR LONG
I am writing this to celebrate some success in our prediction. Some years ago, I mentioned to you that the way to go for the computer business is: installment basis.
This was not the case at that time. It was all cash. But the number of customers who wanted to buy computers but did not have the cash was burgeoning. What they could afford to do was installment. And still is!
That was the way to go. That is the way to go this year onward: Sell by installment.
Now, wherever you look, in the newspaper ads, or going inside a computer shop, you will be presented with offer to buy computers by installment.
Installment system is giving way to make computers more present in every house. And this is happening. Computer is taking the course taken by television - it is becoming just another appliance in every house.
It is still going on. Selling computers by installment is still a click strategy for computer vendors like you. It is all up to you to maximize it. Great wealth will be to him who can installment-sell the most number of computers.
I know there are risks in such kind of credit. But risks can be managed or avoided by being soft, e.g., offer credit restructuring.
We can learn from the appliance vendors like Gillamac, J Marketing, etc. They have learned to live by and successfully manage credit, without estranging "estranged" installment customers.

And because they have done that, one supervisor of a successful appliance center told me: Our company has thrived not on cash purchases, but on credit purchases. As a matter of fact, we discourage cash purchases in favor of the more profitable credit [or installment] purchases."
Learn the meaning of this statement and become rich from that opportunity!
So, what I am going to suggest to you: Set the gear of the installment system you had just started a year or two to the second gear, then, to the third gear, then to the 4th gear to the 5th!
And great riches will be yours!
To minimize the risk, copy my successful investor lender aunt: AUTOMATIC SALARY DEDUCTION. Befriend the cashier or treasurer o payroll personnel of the company where your customers are working.
And for this, even if I am making my Corporate Planning to you free as what friends are for, as what I do to other friends, you are actually preparing the way for my riches when that right time comes.
Quite startled?
Well, I am looking forward when the whole of the world or at least the Philippines will get saturated with computers, especially internet connected.
Why?
My e-Books! My e-Books which can be sold at P10.00 each! Super beautiful, both in design and contents! I am not boasting.
Who will not buy them? Quality ideas, as best as the nectars which the bees obtain from the beautiful flowers. Ideas not sourced from the mud, but from the most beautiful thing of the world, the flower.
I am a bee who roams around in the infinite region of ideas, looking for nectar (quality ideas) which I can process into honey and wrapped into finished products (eBooks) and call my company HONEYCOMB PUBLISHING.
What do you see to that my dearest friend?
I am making eBooks. Time is to come when the packing will be finished.
For the moment, let me assure you that in making my suggestion to you, I did not have this personal benefit in mind. It just came to mind as I was ending this article. I am honest: I help my friends with ideas without thought of getting paid or benefited. For my belief is: it is God who will bless me.
And yet, I came to foresee that your effort to put at least one computer in every home is also actually an act of preparing the condition for my eBook business.
So, let me the more help you more freely! OK? Now, that it will bring good to me, let me help you more freely without strings attached! Can I?
If so, let me add new suggestion:
BE AT THE FOREFRONT OF GETTING EVERY HOUSE CONNECTED TO THE INTERNET.
That’s my first suggestion. We will discuss it in details later.
My second suggestion is: LET US GIRD OURSELVES TOWARDS THE ULTIMATE INVENTION OF ALL, to what I call Multi-Media Device (MMD) or Multi-Media David. David, as opposed to giant Goliath, stands for small but terrible.
For the future will be like this:
If the giant Goliaths like the OS-king Microsoft (Windows) and CPU-maker Intel, they have to minimize themselves and enter the small body of today’s IT’s david, namely: the cellular phone!
Microsoft’s Windows and other applications should enter the small body of the cell phone. So should Intel as the main brain-CPU.
How will Microsoft Windows be able to enter the world of the small? It is now possible with the invention of tiny memory like the flash memory. The other way is this: Microsoft Windows must cease sitting at the windows [i.e., hard disk] and go to the brain - to where the CPU is, that is, it must enter the IC - the integrated circuit - the tiny chips.
Microsoft’s Windows operating system must reach a certain standard, stable enough to get qualified being written in the chips! Other enhancement to the Windows OS shall be placed in extension memory such as the hard disk or the smaller flash memory or any other removable disk.
When both Microsoft (it’s Windows OS) has been in the chip like Intel’s CPU, then, both Microsoft and Intel will be ready to enter the small body of the cellular phone, thus, making the present dumb SMS or the still not so smart phone completely smart!
And so, the cellular phone will have ceased being a dumb phone. It has, thanks to Intel and Microsoft, become intelligent - actually a tiny computer - yes internet connected! And wireless!
But my vision of an MMD is not complete until the features of the digital camera and video camera are added. So that photos, motion picture or movie film, as well as music, speeches and discourses will be the added features in addition to the conventional text messaging, music MP3, and simple picture sharing.
MMD is computer, digital camera, video camera, TV and other media and features in one. MMD is the ultimate all-in-one!
That is not very far!
And the first company to have it will be blessed.
OPPORTUNITY FOR THE OFWs
Bay Benjie,
I know that your next question now is: Where will I find the millions I need to buy computers and where will I find the money to sustain my installment system?
I have a solution to that. Quite hard work. But if you will succeed in it, then, you will become rich: TAP THE OFWs!!!
As early as 2004, I had suggested to John Pingkian that we tap the OFWs to solve our financing needs. I was sure it would succeed. But I made progress no farther than floating the idea to two experienced money lenders who can easily, I believe, convince many OFWs to contribute to their lending capital and even turn their lending business into a DEVELOPMENT BANK OR VENTURE CAPITAL CORP when the time will become ripe.
What is the purpose of tapping the vast money of our OFWs? One present great opportunity is: FINANCE THE INSTALLMENT SELLING OF COMPUTERS TO THE SO MANY WAINTING CUSTOMERS IN THE PHILIPPINES!
I will be sending copies of this email to many persons, for the simple reason that I wish many persons who are in the position to do this, will do this! It is not within your capacity to do it alone in the whole Philippines. But you can have the Visayas - it is already vast.
Bay, I tell you: Like the TV, the computer will be found in every home. It is all up to you and the few others to hasten that day to come.
Do not worry about what size will be the computer: it can be the present size of 16" x 17" x 8" or the size of the cellular phone!
It doesn’t matter. It will not matter. Right?
All you have to do is or are:
Place at least one computer in every home, the size notwithstanding!
Connect each to the internet;
And to attain it: Tap the OFWs and other financing sources.
In the side of the OFWs, banks, lending investors, and other funds sources, COMPUTER INSTALLMENT IS ONE SURE WAY TO GO!
GOING COMPUTER IS BECOMING IRRESISTIBLE
For good or bad purpose, the temptation to get a computer has become irresistible to everyone!
This will be so when the cellular phone and the TVs and the digital camera and the video cameras to which people are hooked and addicted will disappear and become merged with the computer - the MMD.
So, the MMD will become the "in" thing - the all-in-one appliance.
But even before that could happen, the urge is already irresistible or tempting.
For one, I saw the great development in software such as the latest Encarta Encyclopedia of Microsoft for the adults as well as for the children - they are superb tool of education!
This will greatly appeal to a growing number of pupils and students, yes, to their parents who are interested to provide their children with the best tool of education or knowledge in their fingertips at very affordable price!
The internet too will become an irresistible force to many including those who are knowledge oriented: access to thousands or millions of books of digitalized big libraries all over the world including Washington’s Library of Congress!
What more can we ask for?
Why shouldn’t we take this miracle to suddenly graduate from our monkey level of knowledge and education?
For me, as a nationalist Filipino, bent for the education - read: right education -- of our people, I say, "Let’s grab this opportunity!"
I do not say the scientific knowledge written on textbooks and now made available through the different e-libraries, is perfect. I say, scientific knowledge is still imperfect - hence, unsafe. But Bay, we have also the Holy Spirit to guide us through the still dark tunnel of scientific knowledge. Yes, physically speaking, science is not a dark tunnel; it is a light. But spiritually, science is not enough light to light the way of our soul’s salvation. Science needs the Holy Bible and other Holy Scriptures to make itself right and not dangerous. It is like having the right frame of mind and heart not to use a knife to kill a person, but to use it only for good purposes. It is the Holy Bible and other Holy Scriptures that can give man the correct frame of mind and heart not to misuse this vast material knowledge made greatly available via the internet.
With regards to the negative aspect of internet, e.g., cyber sex and e-pornography, I admit, this has also serve the greater motivation why men or women want to get a computer connected to the internet: men wants to view pornographic sex, some women too, but there is a growing number of women who want to earn from ‘safe’ sex, that is, they all have to expose their naked beautiful bodies via the internet, without being touched or raped, then, presto! the income!
But that is now the job of maturing men like us: WE WILL EDUCATE THE PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY THOSE YOUNGER US, THAT EXCLUSIVE SEX LOVE WITH AN EXCLUSIVE PERSON IS STILL AND ALWAYS BE THE WAY TO GO - that the US who tried promiscuity (sex with anyone, thanks to condom etc that enable them to prevent pregnancy and avoid STDs) is not reaping good fruits.
As a matter of fact, I have with me a copy of the PDI-Metro 11/16/07 with the news: Sex diseases still rising in US.
Pregnancy maybe. They were able to avoid that. But the STDs they are not able to avoid them. The report says, "The incidence of gonorrhea…has risen in the last two years in this country while the number of chlamydia and syphilis cases continue to rise, federal health officials said… the 1,030,911 cases of chlamydia in 2006 are the highest ever recorded for any nationality reported in any year…They said that because of underreporting, a more accurate estimate is 2.8 million new chlamydia annually. The chlamydia microbe can cause pelvic inflammatory disease and resulting abdominal pain, ectopic pregnancy and infertility in women."
That is in addition to the fact in the US as well as here in the Philippines, the cervix cancer among women and prostate cancer among men are the leading killers of our people today. What is the cause? Sexual immorality - in addition to chemical loyality!
So, this will be a great war between wrong knowledge and right knowledge.
Sounds like the Armageddon of Revelation 13:13-16. Exactly bay. Armageddon is first and foremost a battle of God and Satan for the minds and hearts of the people. The military aspect will just be a small part of this great war of ideas.
It is a war between the Perverted 666 and Perfect 666!
Truly, our business or work has a spiritual dimension, and not just all business or profit. That is why it is a wise thing to always make sure that IN ORDER TO REAP ETERNAL LIFE, PUT SELFLESS LOVE IN EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO. Many successful businessmen or non-business men put too much Self-love to the sacrifice of Love for God and Love for Neighbor. Result: They failed to fulfill the Law "You shall love God above all and your neighbor as yourself." Therefore, they will be barred from entering the Kingdom of God! Bad business practice and dumb business strategy!
Take that from me, bay, the former Corporate Planner of Alturas Group of Companies. I am now running my own "CorPlan for Everybody" independently as a freelancer! No fees!

VISION 2: THE SOFTWARE
BOOK OF REVELATIONS AND BOOK OF KNOWLEDGE
IN EVERY HOME - IN PAPERBOOK OR CD/eBOOK
January 16, 2008
Dear Edwin,
Greetings!
Grolier company is making The New Book of Knowledge encyclopedia available, through installment payment scheme, which is already a great favor. And we can look towards the near future when our people will be emancipated from the huge ignorance that only encyclopedia et al can help remove.
I have read from a book that Science is not complete - that it needs the partnership of God’s books of Revealed Knowledge but Science plays an important role that no one can do nor serve as proxy, namely: its experiments, discoveries, inventions, findings, observations, even thesis, theories and hypothesis -- confirms or if not immediately, are in the process of confirming or add credence to GOD’S REVELATION OR REVEALED TRUTHS.
One example sparks on the screen: the cholesterol!
If you read encyclopedia, magazines, journal especially medical, online or in paper, you will be presented with mountains of articles proving that cholesterol from the animals is dangerous to our health.
The effects of this cholesterol is a group of diseases collectively called Cardio-Vascular Diseases (CVDs) which include all diseases that concerns the heart and the veins (blood vessels). Sclerosis, heart attack, stroke, high blood pressure, paralysis, etc.
Frightening is that statement "Cholesterol from the animals is dangerous to your health’ because the effects of this so-called bad cholesterol from meat, especially red meat, is at the top of the survey chart: CVDs ARE THE NO. 1 KILLER OF THE AMERICANS AND FILIPINOS (and I guess it is the same to GERMANY and other meat-eating countries, except the Arabs who refuse to eat pork).
Cancer is NO. 2.
Now, do you know that there are at least very old writing, as old as 3,500 years!, that forewarned the danger of animal cholesterol or fat, as we know it more commonly?
These three statements read as follow:
"It shall be a perpetual statute throughout your generations in all your dwellings, that you shall eat neither fat nor blood."
"You shall eat no fat, of ox, or sheep, or goat. The fat of that which dies of itself, and the fat of that which is torn of animals, may be used for any other service; but you shall in no way eat of it."
"And the pig…it is unclean (not safe) for you. You must not eat their meat…"
What is that ancient 3,500-year old writing that has survived to these days?
It is the Old Testament. We quoted those statements from the book of the Leviticus, specifically Leviticus 3:17; Leviticus 7:23-24
and Leviticus 11:7.
That knowledge was revealed, hence, a Revelation. Discovered knowledge refers to Science. Here we read an ancient Revelation. And we will find out soon that Science, some 3,500 years later, NOW! - would confirm the correctness of this Revelation
By the way, I am not speaking here out of some religious bigotry. For I do not belong to any religious group exclusively; I respect all religions and accept their teachings as long as they are biblical or scriptural, but reject any teaching if it is not in the Bible or Scriptures, including those in our mother church Roman Catholic in which I grew up.
So, I am a kind of all-in-one. I accept all teachings as long as they are confirmed by or found in one Authority - the Bible and other Scriptures attributed to God. I call these books collectively as "The Revealed Knowledge by God" or the "Revelations" in contrast to discovered knowledge, which Science is all about.
Due to our human limitations, I have no doubt that Science or discovered Knowledge is limited, often narrow, incomplete, imperfect, and to some extent or cases, erroneous.
But Science or scientists are open-minded; they are not closed-minded like many others. They keep on searching; and they are willing to throw their existing beliefs if only solid proofs are found or newly discovered to disprove their first assumptions.
What is dangerous with many scientists is when they started, out of pride, putting science as higher or as more infallible than the Revelations or revealed knowledge or teachings of God.
This is the error of many scientists. The first and second chapters of the book of Romans discuss this error that led to many scientists’ fall.
Nevertheless, there were and are good scientists are there were and are astray (lost) ones. Scientists do not agree themselves. There is a battle of ideas going on. A purging. Clear water is hopefully the result after this muddled stirring of the lake.
If we let God’s revealed knowledge be the guide, and not place it in the archive to be dusted, then, we can successfully locate which knowledge in the encyclopedia or other books are aligned to the Holy Bible and other Scriptures.
Using this "God’s Revelation is the Final Arbiter, Science is its servant or confirmer" approach to our search for higher education and in our attempt to remove the thick darkness that has enveloped our people, then, our success is guaranteed!
Remember these two principles:
WE NEED THE REVELATION AS THE FINAL ARBITER
WE NEED SCIENCE TOO AS THE CONFIRMER
We must not interchange their specific roles. Science should not take the role as the final arbiter; it must be content to serve as the confirmer - the affirmer of God’s revealed knowledge.
The past centuries should be enough to prove to us that to raise science to the throne of the Final Authority is devastating in results. Science became the law or the ruler; God’s commandments were put to the side.
And so, what the Holy Bible or Scriptures said were not heeded.
For example, and we return to the cholesterol issue: We ignored God’s warning that we should not eat animal fat, not only that of the pig, but of any animal. There is no religious favoritism here; God does not single out the Catholic nor favor the Seventh Day Adventist. For during the time spoke those warnings, some 3,500 years ago, in Canaan, there was no Catholic nor Protestant yet at that time, not even a single one!
So there was no favoritism intended and the message is for every one.
WHAT MEDICAL SCIENCE DISCOVERED
It is not necessary to quote medical authorities nowadays for it has become now a popular knowledge because scientists and doctors have announced it so many times already that ANIMAL FAT IS BD FOR YOUR HEALTH.
There is no room to quote scientific medical sources. And as I have said it is already an accepted fact by all people, not jus by the scientists.
So, what do I want to accomplish here?
I want to emphasize the point that: SCIENCE CONFIRMS REVELATIONS. If Science fails to do that immediately, but sooner it will. Like what happened to the fats, it took 3,500 years for Science to admit that God’s revelation in the book of the Leviticus is right after all!
This is a nice project to do: list all revealed knowledge now slowly and finally confirmed by science.
Science has been a slow maidservant; at times, it refuses to affirm its master, the Revelation. At times, it revealed and declared what is opposite. But eventually, it will humble down and accept its master’s superiority.
Although the eternal Father Jehovah used religious reason for not allowing fat as well as blood from being eaten, scientific researchers found the unrevealed medical reason why He prohibited fat and blood, to wit: it is not good for our health. Fat causes cardio-vascular diseases. Simply stated, fat coagulates inside our veins or blood vessels and so prevent blood from freely flowing, thus, causing rupture such as in the vessel near the brain, causing paralysis or even death.
So…. ?
So, LET US HOLD THE HOLY BIBLE AND SCRIPTURES IN OUR RIGHT HAND (and not allow it to gather dust in our book shelf) AND HOLD SCIENCE IN OUR LEFT HAND.
That is the KEY TO THE EMANCIPATION OF OUR PEOPLE FROM ITS FIRST OPPRESSOR, namely: lies and ignorance.
CHRIST AND CHURCH ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS
Christ and Church are not always in agreement. As a matter of fact, it was the Jewish Church (called Temple in the New Testament) who killed Christ. Right?
And false churches organized by their false messiahs were predicted to spread all over the earth (Matthew 24).
SCIENCE CAN BE AN EFFECTIVE NON-RELIGIOUS TOOL TO DEFEAT FALSE CHURCHES AND FALSE MESSIAHS
Let us take Astronomy as a good example versus the wrong notion of the Church (I do not say Church is all wrong; I say, Church is wrong in some areas!).
Example: in the early centuries, the Catholic Church said that the earth is flat. And she persecuted the scientist Galileo for teaching the people that the earth is round!
Now, who was fooling whom?
And why should our Church still insist she is infallible?
What a thing!
Church, member or leaders, is not infallible. Even Peter was once corrected by Paul for a grave error of hypocrisy (Galatians 2:11-21). And why should the pope insists that he is infallible? Why does he insists, and the priests too, to be addressed and to be loved as the "holy father" in grieve violation of Exodus 20:3 and Matthew 23:9?
The Church, may I repeat, is not the perfect Christ. The Church, member or leaders, is imperfect.
SCIENCE CAN HELP
Since the Holy Bible, in its present set of compiled books, is not recording scientific knowledge and so leaves us much to be desired and discovered, and so, let us use our 5 physical senses to investigate this physical-material world.
And I tell you, Church will be put to shame in many respects. Not in all aspects, but the wrong ones which she peddled out to be accepted by the people for the sake of control by fear and for the sake of financial gains.
This is the bad legacy of this corrupted from of Christianity we had inherited from Spain, whose purpose was to bring us to Christ was muddled and undermined by their overwhelming and dominant aim to exploit our riches!!??
Hence their purpose was not pure and oftentimes as well as in the end, their bad ulterior motive came to the fore!!??.
Let me quote to you a favorite parable of a friendship with a hidden agenda, to wit:
THE PARABLE OF THE HAWK AND THE TURTLE

"There is the story of the turtle and the hawk. The hawk first eagerly helps the turtle out of its mud-hole in the meadow, only to be grabbed by the hawk in its neck during its search for herbs, carried aloft and smashed into a rock.
"Why did the hawk do that? So that she can enjoy the turtle’s flesh as a reward for its previous eagerness to help. My, children, do not do that!
"Do not follow the evil inhabitants in hell [on earth] who serve out of selfishness, for everyone there expects to be served.
"They are like the story of the turtle and the hawk.
"Do not fake ‘love’. Do not serve nor do good deeds with evil ulterior motive. Make sure that you love your neighbor as yourself or best of all, more than yourself for ‘there is no greater love than the one who lay down his life for the sake of his friends.’
"Service should be given in love and with true brotherly feeling, as is customary in the heavens."
Let me hasten to clarify that what Jesus prohibited is not proper love of self, but excessive love of self. We all love our self and to the right extent the Lord supports it and does not want self-love be destroyed, only be limited. He never said we should hate ourselves. He only said, Love the Father your God above all and your neighbor as yourself. In short, You still have to love yourself, but no longer that much and no longer alone.
Love of self must be less than our love for God and be equal to our love for the neighbors.
That is the correction that we should make to stop this present imbalance between the rich and the poor which resulted from the smart rich’s success in outsmarting or deceiving the poor majority. And why did they do that? All because of greater love for self than love for God and neighbor. They don’t care about the squatters, the garbage people, the street children, the beggars. They focus their brilliant minds and efforts to achieving success - and all for the Self and the self’s!
That is the imbalance here in the Philippines and generally in the world. In Japan, they had made headways. Japanese care for each other. That is why they are very rich and stable. The Americans too. So do the Germans.
But it is a different story outside Japan, outside Germany, outside America. They all treat the "outsiders" or non-racial brothers as venue of their exploitation, and sexploitation.
Too bad the world is. But Christ said, Let your racial love be extended to your other brothers who are of different color.
That is still a goal Christ has. It is yet to be fulfilled. He is still in the work of letting all races understand that we all have one Father and we are all brothers, irregardless of skin color (Matthew 23:8-8).
Now, Win, I have said too much. Let me come to some conclusion and plans now.
CONCLUSION:
Science is important not as a final Arbiter of all confusion, but as an effective maidservant of the Revelations or of the Revealer (God).
In many cases, Science is effective in correcting long-held erroneous views, superstitions, myths, lies, deceptions, that the Church peddled or tolerated for some financial gains.
We need science, under the guidance of the Revelation of God, to help remove the thick veil of darkness (ignorance) that long hold our people in slavery and inutile-ness.
One mother wondered, for example, why Filipino women when they go to other countries ended up looking for or taking works those of the slaves, maids and even prostitutes while when American women, German women, Japanese women visit our country, they do so as tourists to view our beautiful spots.
So, my dear friend Edwin, let us say, SOMETHING IS WRONG - FUNDAMENTALLY VERY WRONG BOTH IN OUR PEOPLE AND IN OUR LEADERS.
Therefore, I encourage your cooperation for us accomplish the following goals:
Book of Knowledge or any other encyclopedia for that matter, to be in EVERY HOME, on paper as well as in digital form.
To help the readers-students APPLY AND REAP BENEFITS and not just stop at knowing.
This is what I see to be lacking. Selling is not enough. But it is still a big mission to accomplish because only to a small percentage has the encyclopedia been sold. A large majority do not have the encyclopedia.
So, this is still a big task at hand.
But I believe we can do number 2 at the same time, without hampering the first goal. And as a matter of fact, helping Goal No. 1!
What I mean is: if we can show to the first batch of buyers that the knowledge they found in the New Book of Knowledge to be powerful in conquering poverty, in augmenting their income, in improving their health, in increasing their intelligence, in increasing their grades, in overcoming the present oppression by the rich, in doing away with employment and making a success at independent self-employment or own business with the aid of right science - if we can trigger new inventions and innovations with the help of the New Book of Knowledge - if we can activate our budding scientists to action, if we can remove diseases and sickness by a large percentage - if we can increase health, prosperity, happiness, love, freedom and all positive things you can mention of, then, I guess that SELLING THE NEW BOOK OF KNOWLEDGE ET AL TO THE OTHERS WILL BE PLAINLY EASY!!!!
Therefore, let us:
list all the things in the Book of Knowledge that we can apply ourselves first;
then, to share them to our buyers: those who now possess the encyclopedia.
A club or team composed of Grolier people and eventually by Grolier buyers (customers) who experienced good results from the knowledge they applied is hereby proposed.
Why do I propose that a team from Grolier or a team of selected benefited buyers be organized?
To help quickly identify which knowledge are immediately applicable in the Philippines.
To quickly produce concrete results that can contribute to the welfare of the people in whatever form.
And for corporate objective (this is proper self-love): To hasten - make faster - sales.
And for my other personal purpose (this too is not wrong self-love) - I want to serve Grolier and all of you there in time when I am delayed in my payments, due to two reasons: 1) I got defeated in the last barangay election not due to incompetence but lack of commitment (time); my honorarium was my pledge to pay my monthly installment to the New Book of Knowledge; 2) I cannot yet use my small bakery’s income - not easily because I am busy battling the sudden increase of prices of ingredients (Ex. flour from P640 to P820!) All ingredients have increased in their prices! This is the result of one lie: THAT HE WHO HAS THE MONEY IS THE ONE WHO IS WORTHY TO BE ELECTED INTO OFFICE!
They do not know that the candidates who have the much money are the ones backed up by the evil drug lords, gambling lords, etc.
We have to destroy them in many fronts. One is the political front. The other in the economic front, e.g., GREAT INCREASES OF PRICES HAPPEN IMMEDIATELY AFTER ELECTION BECAUSE BIG BUSINESS THAT FINANCED THE ELECTION IMMEDIATELY RECOUP (recover) THEIR EXPENSES. They call it with innocent hard-to-comprehend name --- Inflation!
If we can let voters understand a simple calculation:
This so-called inflation increases prices of let us just say, P1.00 per product and services including transportation (fare). And out of thousands of products and services, let us just take 30. And so P 1.00 x 30 = P30.00 a day. Per voter.
That is added to the prices, but will go to the pocket of the election financiers.
Now, multiply P30.00 to the number of days of a 3-year term: 1,095 days or round off 1,000.
We lost - each voter stands to lose after the official term of 3 years, some P30,000.00!!!
That is what we’d lose in return for the small inangayan (votemoney or bribe) of P200.00 per person came eve of the election day from our candidates.
It is more than 400% a month. No lending investor is legal to lend money at that so exorbitant a rate! That’s a killer rate! Even 10% or the so-called 5-6 is already hated. But we love to "borrow" from our politicians P200.00 at election eve and pay it at 400% a month for 36 months or three years!
And we just accept the news after election: "Price of flour increases from P640 to P820 due to inflation."
We cannot blame anyone or anything other than our being DUMB!
THE SOLUTION: RIGHT KNOWLEDGE
Win, make selling the encyclopedia in its many forms, digital or paper, not just your goal but something like an evangelical mission.
To aid that, we have to proceed to do something to hasten or encourage to hasten the APPLICATION OF SUCH KNOWLEDGE. For if we don’t initiate, I have found with my relatives both in Jagna or in Calape, or elsewhere, that THEY HAD LET THE BOOK OF KNOWLEDGE et al to SLEEP AND GATHER DUST IN THEIR BOOKSHELVES.
They only serve simple school researches. Nay, that is not the ultimate purpose of knowledge. It is not to be just written in some school term paper and then, leave there. In America, when you say knowledge in BioChemistry, people or students and scientists of all ages apply it in their homes, laboratories, in factories, in companies, in schools, everywhere.
Knowledge there is alive. It is not allowed to remain inserted in dusted old books. IT IS APPLIED.
So, we are not only up to selling and earning commission. WE should proceed to SPEARHEADING IN THE APPLICATION OF KNOWLEDGE TO REMOVE IGNORANCE, SLAVERY AND POVERTY AND ATTAIN INTELLIGENCE, WISDOM, FREEDOM AND PROSPERITY!
That is our revised and expanded MISSION.
And all the financial things that we desire shall be added unto you, borrowing from Christ’s famous statement.
Win, can you accept this challenge?
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And probably, I can help in the action, as far as Bohol is concerned. Your desire that I help you see important people here in Bohol will become an easy and more meaningful thing to do if we can pair it - read: tie it to - the phase which I term as "APPLYING THE BOOK OF KNOWLEDGE FOR YOUR FAMILY, WORK AND BUSINESS."
Perhaps we can organize some sort of Grolier Young Scientists and Innovators’ Club which we will use as the agency TO APPLY THE NEW BOOK OF KNOWLEDGE.
Like what they do with the Bible. There are living testimonies. Why can’t we do that? Why don’t we do that!
You see, as the Bible say, the testimony of two or three witnesses are binding, and let me add, convincing. That is why Roch herbal is such a success! They have living testimonies!
Anything that can encourage and hasten application of what is written in the New Book of Knowledge and by automatic result, which can hasten SALES!!!
Believe it or not!
With my best wishes for you….

Your friend,
Your Nong Cocoy

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

THE IDEAL AND MODEL WOMAN

THE IDEAL AND MODEL WOMAN:

LADY, WIFE AND MOTHER

QUICK CONTENTS OVERVIEW

] A MODEL WOMAN RESTORES HER MEN WHO ARE WEAKENED BY VICES AND MADE INUTILE, OBSOLETE, AND EFFIMINATE

] A MODEL WOMAN DOES NOT ALLOW CHILDREN’S EVIL WILL TO BECOME DOMINANT AT HOME AND OUTSIDE.

] A MODEL WOMAN DOES NOT TAKE OVER LEADERSHIP ROLES

] A MODEL WOMAN DOES NOT LET HER SELFISH SELF-LOVE DOMINATES & CAUSES GREAT HARM

· THE IDEAL WOMAN POSSESSES AN INNER BEAUTY

· THE WOMAN WHO IS NOT PART OF THE BLAME OR PROBLEM, BUT PART OF THE SOLUTION LIKE THE PROVERBS 31 WOMAN

· WHAT IS A MODEL WOMAN – WIFE AND MOTHER?

] THE MODEL WIFE HAS A NOBLE CHARACTER

] THE MODEL WOMAN HAS WISDOM, PRUDENCE & DISCRETION

F FIRST DUTY OF MAN – TEACH WOMAN WITH WISDOM

] THE MODEL WOMAN IS KIND

] THE MODEL MOTHER IS DILIGENT

] THE MODEL MOTHER IS VIGILANT

] THE MODEL WOMAN IS TRUSTWORTHY

] THE IDEAL WOMAN IS MEEK (HUMBLE, GENTLE) AND MERCIFUL (COMPASSIONATE, KIND)

] A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HUSBAND AND CHILDREN

] THE MODEL WOMAN IS TO BE PRAISED AND REWARDED

] “HOT” APPROACH IS NOT EFFECTIVE

] USE THE SOFT APPROACH – THE RIGHT COMBINATION OF LOVE, WISDOM, WILL, EARNEST, PATIENCE, AND MEEKNESS

· THE IDEAL WOMAN LISTENS TO THE FATHER’S MESSAGE TO THE “GIRL, VIRGIN, MOTHER AND WIFE” (4 August 1870)

· THE IDEAL MOTHER DOES NOT WORRY ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS: SHE SUBMITS THEM TO GOD


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“See, a king [Jesus Christ at the top and His appointee in each region] will reign in righteousness and rulers will rule with justice.

· Each man will be like a shelter from the wind and a refuge from the storm, like streams of water in the desert and the shadow of a great rock in a thirsty land.

· “Then the eyes of those who see will no longer be closed, and the ears of those who hear will listen.

· “The mind of the rash will know and understand, and the stammering tongue will be fluent and clear.

· “NO LONGER WILL THE FOOL BE CALLED NOBLE NOR THE SCOUNDREL BE HIGHLY RESPECTED. For the fool speaks folly, his mind is busy with evil: He practices ungodliness and spreads error concerning the Lord; the hungry he leaves empty and from the thirsty he withholds water. The scoundrel’s methods are wicked, he makes up evil schemes to destroy the poor with lies, even when the plea of the needy is just.

· “But the noble man makes noble plans, and by noble deeds he stands” (Isaiah 32:1-8).

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Take Note: It will come. It is coming. Behind the clouds is the silver lining! Just hold on. Hang on. Believe and you will have it! God’s way is not “To see is to believe” but “To believe is to see” it fulfilled.

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] A MODEL WOMAN RESTORES HER MEN WHO ARE WEAKENED BY VICES AND MADE INUTILE, OBSOLETE, AND EFFIMINATE:

Like the experience the nation of Israel who backslid and followed the way contrary to God’s 10 Commandments and statutes,

· What used to be a faithful city has become full of harlots (Isaiah 1:21) of all kinds!

· What used to be full of justice and where righteousness once dwell is now full of murderers! (v. 21). Both those who directly kill and those who use the system to dry up the supplies and sources of life of the fellowman!

· The leaders have become rebels of God’s government (v. 23)

· And companions of thieves or are themselves thieves! (v. 23)

· They love bribes and chase after gifts (v. 23)

· They do not defend the cause of the fatherless; the widow’s case does not come before them (v. 23).

Like the experience of Israel and Judah, because of sins and wickedness, the Lord will allow that our supply of life and strengths will be taken from us:

· “The Lord Almighty will take from [us] both supply and support: all supplies of food and all supplies of water, the hero and the warrior, the judge and the prophet, the soothsayer and elder, the captain of fifty and man of rank, the counselor, skilled craftsman and clever enchanter.” OUR NATION HAS BEEN LOSING HER MEN OF STRENGTH THROUGH THE ONGOING BRAIN AND SKILL DRAIN, as more and more of them are abandoning the county for a safer place [greener pasture] abroad. Our nation is also losing her men of strength in the persons of the farmers; this backbone sector of our society is fast fading as the succeeding generation is shunning agriculture. When the farmers are gone, then, the stable supply of food and life will be gone!

· LEADERSHIP CRISIS: MEN CANNOT LEAD, BECOME COWARDS: “A man will seize one of his brothers at his father’s home, and say, ‘You have a cloak [that is, you are the financial better off], [therefore] BE OUR LEADER; TAKE CHARGE OF THIS HEAP OF RUINS!’ But in that day, he will cry out [reply]: ‘I HAVE NOT REMEDY [solution]. I have no food or clothing in my house; do not make me the leader of the people” (Isaiah 2:6-7).

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] A MODEL WOMAN DOES NOT ALLOW CHILDREN’S EVIL WILL TO BECOME DOMINANT AT HOME AND OUTSIDE.

· “I will make boys their officials and mere children will govern them” (verse 4). Results of adult leniency and lack of visionary adult leadership:

o (1) “People will oppress each other – man against man, neighbor against neighbor (v. 5).

o (2) “The young will rise up against the old, the base against the honorable” (v. 5)

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] A MODEL WOMAN DOES NOT TAKE OVER LEADERSHIP ROLES

· “Youth oppress My people, WOMEN rule over them [at home and in organizations and government]” (verse 12). Women usually rule by charm; they use their sexual appeal to pressure or cause their men to transgress God’s law of neighborly love and so exploit their fellowmen. Thus, many men of great intellect invented methods and schemes to circumvent God’s 10th commandment “You shall not covet thy neighbor’s house, thy neighbor’s land, thy neighbor’s livestock or any property that belongs to your neighbor”. Because of women’s skill in using their sex as a strong bargaining tool as well as a powerful motivator of men, men are forced to do short cuts just to achieve the dreams, desires and high ambitions of riches, honor and luxury of their women (most specifically, wives).

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] A MODEL WOMAN DOES NOT LET HER SELFISH SELF-LOVE DOMINATES & CAUSES GREAT HARM

Women are said to be either angel or devil. Blessed are we if our women are angel – to lead us to heaven. But woe we are if our women exert wrong influence on us. This influence is often subtle, hard to detect, but if we are not careful will led us do things not pleasing to God and harmful to our neighbors. What is the danger of female influence? “O My people, your [female] guides lead you astray; they turn you from the [right] path” (verse 13). The woman’s love is called self-love. If not matured into love [gratitude] for God and love [pity] for the poor, this love of self is good only for the family and self, and discriminates everyone who does not belong to the self, and classify them as “others”, “strangers”, “competitors”, “enemies”, etc. Included in this category are the true poor deserving of our pity and compassion; but this type of women reject and scorn them. This is the real origin of injustices and oppression. Self-love is the cause. But Jesus said of this, “The righteous feeds the hungry, gives drink to the thirsty, clothes the naked, treats the sick, shelter the homeless, helps the prisoner. Whoever cares for the least of these My brothers, he does that to Me” (Matthew 25:37-40).

WOE TO THE SELFISH WOMEN WHO URGED THEIR HUSBANDS AND SONS TO EXPOIT THE POOR:

“The Lord takes His place in court; He rises to judge the people. The Lord enters into judgment against the elder and leaders of his people: ‘IT IS YOU WHO HAVE RUINED MY VINEYARD [that is, His people whom he nurtures like a garden]. THE PLUNDER FROM THE POOR IS IN YOUR HOUSES!” (v. 14).

Take NOTE of this very carefully. They have plundered the poor and their loot is in their houses and inside their houses! In the Philippines, they have the following schemes to extort and exploit the people: (1) the taxation system; (2) the nationalized and institutionalized gambling; (3) making all vices into businesses, exploiting the people’s weakness and tendency to lust and pride. “‘What do you mean by crushing My people and grinding the faces of the poor?’ declares Jehovah, Jehovah Almighty” (v. 15). And then the Lord proceeds to accusing the proud women of the country and forewarning them of what is going to befall upon them because of their role in today’s world topsy-turvy state:

“The women of Zion are haughty,

walking along with outstretched (read: ostrich) necks,

flirting with their eyes,

tripping along with mincing steps,

with ornaments jingling on their ankles.

“Therefore, Jehovah will bring sores on the heads of the women of Zion;

Jehovah will make their scalps bald.

“In that day, Jehovah will snatch away their finery:

the bangles and headbands and crescent necklaces,

the earrings and bracelets

and veils, the headdresses and ankle chains and sashes,

the perfume bottles and charms,

the signet rings and nose rings,

the fine robes and the capes and cloaks,

the purses, and mirrors,

and the linen garments and tiaras and shawls.

“Instead of fragrance there will be a stench [e.g., STDs];

Instead of a sash, a rope [e.g., desperation, suicide];

Instead of well-dressed hair, baldness [e.g., cancer’s chemotherapy];

Instead of fine clothing, sackcloth [e.g., grieving];

Instead of beauty, branding.

“Your men will fall by the sword

[e.g., war that is caused by selfishness of the women]

your warriors in battle.

The gates of Zion [e.g., capital cities] will lament and mourn;

Destitute, she will sit on the ground [widowed].”[1]

“In that day, seven women will take hold of one man

[i.e., population of men decreased by war casualties]

and say, ‘We will eat our own food

and provide our own clothes;

only let us be called by your name.

Take away our disgrace!”[2]

MATERIALISTIC, AMBITIOUS, SELFISH WOMEN ARE OFTEN THE CAUSE OF WAR AND SUFFERINGS: THEY’D SWAYED THEIR MEN, SONS OR HUSBANDS, TO GRAB, EXPLOIT OR OPPRESS UNTIL THE OPPRESSED POOR REVOLTED & DESTROYED THEIR OPPRESSORS. They shall be taught with a hard lesson from experience that they can never forget, namely: the lesson to love God above all in the persons of the poor and to love their neighbor as themselves.

WARNING AGAINST WOMEN COMPLACENCE & INDIFFERENCE

DUE TO THEIR LIFE OF LUXURY

“You [rich] women who are complacent (self-satisfied),

rise up and listen to Me;

you daughters who feel secure.

Hear what I have to say:

In little more than a year,

You who feel secure will tremble;

The grape harvest will fail (e.g., financial failure),

And the harvest of fruit (i.e., profits) will not come.

Tremble, you complacent women;

Shudder you daughters who feel secure!

Strip off your clothes,

Put a sackcloth around your waists

[That is, stop your rejoicings. Mourn].

Beat your breasts for the pleasant fields,

For the fruitful vines

And for the land of My people,

A land overgrown with thorns and briers –

Yes, mourn for all the houses of merriment

And for this city of revelry.

The fortress will be abandoned,

The noisy city deserted;

Citadel and watchtower will become a wasteland forever,

The delight for donkeys, a pasture for flocks…”[3]

God is displeased with the merriment of women living in luxury, merriment and revelry, who put their trust on the material riches that abound towards their granary or treasury. These, God said, will stop in a twinkle of an eye, and their feeling of security will be replaced with fear, worry, sorrows and insecurity!

That is the fate of those who put their trust not in God and those who acquire their riches, not as a gift of and blessing from God, but by plundering the poor and the weak. There dishonest riches will fail them!

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Women who won over their unbelieving husbands by their behavior,

When they see the purity and reverence of their lives.

Whose beauty does not come from outward adornment,

Such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry

And fine clothes;

But women whose beauty is that of their inner self –

The unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit,

Which is of great worth in God’s sight.

Like the holy women of the past who put their hope and trust in God,

By that they made themselves beautiful.

They were submissive to their own husbands,

such as Sarah who obeyed Abraham and called him her master.

You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give in to fear,[4]

[but instead live in faith, hope and love].

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· THE WOMAN WHO IS NOT PART OF THE BLAME OR PROBLEM, BUT PART OF THE SOLUTION LIKE THE PROVERBS 31 WOMAN

What kind of women who please God? The woman who is not part of the blame or problem, but part of the solution. Like the Proverbs 31 woman. She who does not keeps on cursing the darkness, but proceeds to lighting a candle.

THE PROVERBS 31 WOMAN!

“A wife of noble character who can find?

She is worth far more than rubies.

Her husband has full confidence in her

And lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.

She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.

She gets up while it is still dark;

She provides food for her family

And portions for her servant girls.

She considers a field and buys it;

Out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

She sets about her work vigorously;

Her arms are strong for her tasks.

She sees that her trading are profitable,

And her lamp does not go out at night.

In her hand she holds the distaff

And grasps the spindle with her fingers.

She opens her arms to the poor

And extends her hands to the needy.

When it snows, she has no fear for her household;

For all of them are clothed in scarlet.

She makes covering for her bed;

She is clothed in fine linen and purple.

Her husband is respected at the city gate,

When he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

She makes linen garments and sells them,

And supplies the merchants with sashes.

She is clothed with strength and dignity;

She can laugh at the days to come.

She speaks with wisdom,

And faithful instruction is on her tongue.

She watches over the affairs of her household

And does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children arise and call her blessed;

Her husband also and he praises her:

‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’

Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting;

But a woman who fears Jehovah, the Eternal Father, is to be praised.

Give her the reward she has earned,

and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.”

(Proverbs 31:10:31)

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WHAT IS A MODEL WOMAN – WIFE AND MOTHER?

] THE MODEL WIFE HAS A NOBLE CHARACTER

“A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like a decay in his bones” (Proverbs 12:4).

“Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting;

But a woman who fears Jehovah, the Eternal Father, is to be praised.

Give her the reward she has earned,

and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.”

(Proverbs 31:30:31)

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] THE MODEL WOMAN HAS WISDOM, PRUDENCE & DISCRETION

“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down”

(Proverbs 14:1).

“She speaks with wisdom,

And faithful instruction is on her tongue”

(Proverbs 31:26)

“Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion” (Proverbs 11:22).

“A prudent wife is from the Lord”

(Proverbs 19:14b)

FIRST DUTY OF MAN – TEACH WOMAN WITH WISDOM

Click NEW REVELATIONS OF JESUS CHRIST, Volume 20, Chapter 61:9-14

THE LORD NARRATES:

And I said to them all: “Although since the beginning no woman is called to prophesy as a prophetess for a people, but if the heart of a woman is pious, and she keeps the commandments and educates her children wisely in the true respect for God and in love, then she is also like a prophet, and God’s Spirit will also reside in her heart.

That is why, when in future times you will proclaim My word, you should not exclude the women, as this has been often the case until now, but you should not withhold anything to her of what has been revealed to you about the Kingdom of God, because what the women will teach the children as mothers and main educators is more lasting and more valuable than the education of all the universities in the world.

When a woman is wise, then also her children will become wise, but if a woman is stupid and uneducated, then it will also be difficult to make prophets of her children. Here it will be like the proverb which says that an apple does not fall far from the tree.

It is very right for a woman to be a good, zealous housekeeper and who also raises and trains her children, but it is still better when she - herself being filled with the Spirit of truth out of God - will also fill the heart of her children with the same Spirit. Then to such children My gospel can easily and effectively be preached. Observe this also well in future times.”

Roklus, the other Essenes and the innkeeper thanked Me for this lesson, and Roklus said in particular: “Yes, Lord and Master, it has been with us, and namely with the Jews near Jerusalem, always the big mistake to spend much too little attention to the true development of the heart and mind of women, and this is mainly the cause of the complete darkening and decline of the people in the pure faith in one God. So from now on we will not withhold what is - as with men - necessary for their spiritual development.”

I said: “Do that, then it will soon be light among the people. But whenever later this advice of Mine will not be followed, and the women will become again worldly and proud, then the ancient darkness will come up again among the people, and the faith will extinguish and love will turn cold, and then there will be again distress among the people as never before.”

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] THE MODEL WOMAN IS KIND

“A kindhearted woman gains respect”

(Proverbs 11:16).

“She opens her arms to the poor

And extends her hands to the needy”

(Proverbs 31:20).

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] THE MODEL MOTHER IS DILIGENT

“She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.

She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.

She gets up while it is still dark;

She provides food for her family

And portions for her servant girls.

She considers a field and buys it;

Out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

She sets about her work vigorously;

Her arms are strong for her tasks.

She sees that her trading are profitable,

And her lamp does not go out at night.

In her hand she holds the distaff

And grasps the spindle with her fingers”

(Proverbs 31:13-19)

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] THE MODEL MOTHER IS VIGILANT

“When it snows, she has no fear for her household;

For all of them are clothed in scarlet.

She makes covering for her bed;

She is clothed in fine linen and purple”

(Proverbs 31:21-22).

“She makes linen garments and sells them,

And supplies the merchants with sashes.

She is clothed with strength and dignity;

She can laugh at the days to come”

(Proverbs 31:24-25)

She watches over the affairs of her household

And does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children arise and call her blessed;

Her husband also and he praises her:

‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all’

(Proverbs 31:27-29)

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] THE MODEL WOMAN IS TRUSTWORTHY

“A wife of noble character who can find?

She is worth far more than rubies.

Her husband has full confidence in her

And lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life”

(Proverbs 31:10-12).

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] THE IDEAL WOMAN IS MEEK (HUMBLE, GENTLE) AND MERCIFUL (COMPASSIONATE, KIND)

“A true woman is a symbol of the innermost heaven… a true woman must never become very angry towards a man, for the greatest patience, gentleness and meekness must prevail in the female nature. In her the man must find the true peace for his stormy nature and thus himself become gentle and patient. What can be expected of a man who is anyway always in a turmoil rather than at peace if the woman began to rage before the man?... [S]peaking at the right time and being silent at the right time, but always full of meekness and love and devotion, is the finest adornment for a woman and a very lovely living flame, which will enliven any man’s heart and render him gentle and mild.”[5]

“Endeavor to preserve a girl’s heart gentle, awaken in time love, the all-appeasing love for Me and for the fellowman, and arouse compassion in her. For when a heart learns to feel another’s sufferings, it tries to help as much as possible. Compassion keeps the heart soft and ready to help where it can and eliminates many other inordinate desires and thoughts that would otherwise usurp all the space in a proud heart.

Compassion leads to esteem, equality with the fellowman, and is diametrically opposed to pride, which is ruled by the delusion to be something better than others.

Compassion, this flower out of the crown of neighborly love, sweetens life, soothes every pain and gives comfort in all circumstances. And exactly whom did I endow with more means to exercise this compassion in the most effective way?

Did I not endow you, My lovely female children, with the most beautiful, softest forms, soft facial contours, soulful eyes whose glance, moved to tears by compassion, none of the stronger sex can resist?

Did I not endow you with a softer voice, whose endearing tone should breathe balm onto the wounds of others?”[6]

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] A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HUSBAND AND CHILDREN

“A wife of noble character who can find?

She is worth far more than rubies.

Her husband has full confidence in her

And lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life”

(Proverbs 31:10-12).

“Her husband is respected at the city gate,

When he takes his seat among the elders of the land”

(Proverbs 31:23).

“The wise woman builds her house”

(Proverbs 14:1).

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] THE MODEL WOMAN IS TO BE PRAISED AND REWARDED

“A wife of noble character who can find?

She is worth far more than rubies.

Her husband has full confidence in her

And lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life”

(Proverbs 31:10-12).

“Her children arise and call her blessed;

Her husband also and he praises her:

‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’

Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting;

But a woman who fears Jehovah, the Eternal Father, is to be praised.

Give her the reward she has earned,

and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.”

(Proverbs 31:28-31)

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The ideal woman concentrates on her task not in trying to change her husband by coercion or collision. She changes him not by her words, but by her behavior of meekness and love. This is the strategy which the apostle Peter gave to the Lord’s female disciples:

“Women who won over their unbelieving husbands by their behavior,

When they see the purity and reverence of their lives.

Whose beauty does not come from outward adornment…

But women whose beauty is that of their inner self –

The unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit,

Which is of great worth in God’s sight.

Like the holy women of the past who put their hope and trust in God,

By that they made themselves beautiful.

They were submissive to their own husbands….”[7]

A wife can change her husband. We can change people. But not by our words, but by our example.

To change your husband or to help change him, focus on changing your character into one which can change his!

What kind of female character that can change a bad man?

The soft, compassionate, loving, understanding character. “Soft answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger,” so advised the wise king Solomon (Proverbs 15:1).

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] “HOT” APPROACH IS NOT EFFECTIVE

Men are held captive by sins and vices. They are mainly to be blamed for the sufferings of their wives and children. And the women are to help save their husbands, instead of remaining victims of circumstances. They have to rise up. How?

By the much-used head-on collision approach?

Women who tried to use the head-on collision method learned later that they had not succeeded. And not only countless of experiences of countless women, also the Book of Proverbs of Solomon which are written experiences of his time, confirm the same fact.

Let us quote some of the verses:

“A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping” (Proverbs 19:13)

“Better to live in a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife” (Proverbs 21:9).

“Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife” (Proverbs 21:19)

“Better to live in a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife” (Proverbs 25:24).

“A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping on a rainy day; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand” (Proverbs 27:15).

“A wayward wife is a narrow well” (Proverbs 23:27).

The “hot” approach is an approach resorted to for lack of better ways (wisdom). Only the dumb and those lacking in faith in God or the worldly women use it. As we can see, there are better ways. The ‘hot’ approach will ‘spend’ your heart and crack your mouth only to find the problem getting worse.

The ideal woman does not use the worldly ‘hot’ approach.

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] USE THE SOFT APPROACH – THE RIGHT COMBINATION OF LOVE, WISDOM, EARNEST, PATIENCE, AND MEEKNESS

The Father has this to say: “Gently, gently, My dear little daughter! You must have to restrain yourself more and must not be too forward in front of experienced men. Only when someone has gone astray is it time to remind him gently and mildly where he had made a mistake.

“For it would not be proper for women to teach the truth to men of experience. Only when these men occasionally deviate from the right path is it proper for a woman to admonish gently and mildly and say: ‘Beware, my friend, you are here on the wrong track! The matter stands so-and-so.’ This will please the man very much, and he will be quite willing to obey the gentle and mild voice.

“However, it won’t do to be pert as the man then easily turns cross and bad-tempered and will not listen to the beautiful and gentle voice of an ever so humble a woman. Look, this is also a gospel, but only for your sex. The woman heeding this will always have a good life on this earth, but the one not heeding this gospel will only have to blame herself if she is not held in high esteem by the men.

“A true woman is a symbol of the innermost heaven – but an improper, self-willed and domineering woman is an image of Satan, who stands for the worst, lowest and deepest hell.

“Besides, a true woman must never become very angry towards a man, for the greatest patience, gentleness and meekness must prevail in the female nature. In her the man must find the true peace for his stormy nature and thus himself become gentle and patient. What can be expected of a man who is anyway always in a turmoil rather than at peace if the woman began to rage before the man?

“Therefore, do not ever be pert My otherwise very dear little daughter, - lest you will have many more opportunities to become angry at somebody’s rebuke. However, if you keep silent when asked to speak up, the man will regard this as true willfulness, malice and slyness and will turn his heart away from you. Therefore, speaking at the right time and being silent at the right time, but always full of meekness and love and devotion, is the finest adornment for a woman and a very lovely living flame, which will enliven any man’s heart and render him gentle and mild.

“However, there is with the virgins the bad habit which often manifests itself very blatantly, namely: vanity which is nothing but a healthy seed of pride. A virgin who allows this to sprout in her has already lost her heavenly femininity and has come close to the nature of Satan. A vain virgin is hardly worth laughing at, but a proud and arrogant woman is a carrion among the people and, therefore, justly and profoundly despised by everyone. Therefore, My little daughter, do not ever be in the least vain, let alone proud and arrogant, and you will shine among many a beautiful star in the high heaven.”[8]

The ideal woman follows that.

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Let us now view the picture from another side, namely, how I actually created woman and what she was endowed with so as not to be a hindrance to My design…

Endeavor to preserve a girl’s heart gentle, awaken in time love, the all-appeasing love for Me and for the fellowman, and arouse compassion in her. For when a heart learns to feel another’s sufferings, it tries to help as much as possible. Compassion keeps the heart soft and ready to help where it can and eliminates many other inordinate desires and thoughts that would otherwise usurp all the space in a proud heart.

Compassion leads to esteem, equality with the fellowman, and is diametrically opposed to pride, which is ruled by the delusion to be something better than others.

Compassion, this flower out of the crown of neighborly love, sweetens life, soothes every pain and gives comfort in all circumstances. And exactly whom did I endow with more means to exercise this compassion in the most effective way?

Did I not endow you, My lovely female children, with the most beautiful, softest forms, soft facial contours, soulful eyes whose glance, moved to tears by compassion, none of the stronger sex can resist?

Did I not endow you with a softer voice, whose endearing tone should breathe balm onto the wounds of others?”

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· THE IDEAL WOMAN LISTENS TO THE 4 August 1870 MESSAGE OF THE FATHER: “GIRL, VIRGIN, MOTHER AND WIFE”

“Since your company is almost predominantly of the female gender, which exerts such a significant influence on the spiritual education of My children, I will for the sake of your sisters give also a few words for them. Then the ones may realize what they really ought to have done, and the others consider what they still should do, partly so as to deserve the name “My children” and partly so as to operate in such a way that all souls that will be entrusted to them by Me may also be guided onto My roads in accordance with My higher decree. Let us then come to the point:

Let us begin as with the preceding fourfold dictation, namely, with youth, or with the first phase as child or, here of the female gender, with the girl.

Soon after birth when no sexual difference as to urges and passions is present and the vegetative life alone is predominant, in the boy or the girl the only discernible difference lies in the physical arrangement. In the girl the weaker, calmer, suffering, passive nature is predominant, whereas in the boy already the violent and more active temperament is discernible which later forms his character, as compared with the gentler and weaker girl.

This phase is, therefore, the same with both sexes. All the passions and virtues are peacefully dormant in the sleep of the righteous until other conditions arouse them to separation and conflict and, as we have shown in the case of the boy, also in the girl self-will and anger are the first bad qualities manifesting.

What I have said there about these two impulses, now applies also to the girl. Only here, self-will is an even more dangerous passion in the girl than in the boy because at a later age the boy possesses more willpower to curb it, whereas the weaker girl is unable to resist the urge. Moreover, she is more easily confirmed in all her actions because, being of the weaker sex, she meets everywhere with more indulgence. But this indulgence towards her defiance later on will give bad hours to the virgin and mother, for she will then come into contact with the opposite sex, which was destined by Me personally to rule, not to be ruled. So much on these two traits.

Whichever of your sisters has to bring up children, shall watch out for these two poisonous herbs. Although woman was created to restore wherever she goes peace and blessing among upset people, she can on the other hand transform the most beautiful heaven into hell if she lacks the strength to subdue these bad traits. This results in the worst consequences, not only for the stubborn and easily angered woman herself, but also for the children and grandchildren, in the way a cancer progresses.

That which in the boy with growing age is pugnacity, the desire to be stronger than others and rule over his comrades, which is a widespread trait, is with the girl vanity. The boy wants to be considered by his playmates the strongest, the most agile (and most clever) and as such feared, whereas the girl wants to be the most beautiful and best dressed (and most attractive) among her girlfriends. The former applies also to the boy, but is by far not so dangerous a passion as with the girl, where as jealousy it is of even more significance.

Jealousy is the worst and most terrible passion which crowds out from the female heart all the other, better traits, combining with hatred, anger and vengefulness, and what I once said in one of My words holds true: “If you want to see Satan in person, look at a vainly decked out miss or a jealous woman!

Indeed, a woman only ruled by passions is a personified fury. For with a vengeful and angry man, reason in the end usually prevails. But with a woman, there is not longer any reasoning with the head, and only the heart, being the seat of all that is either best or worst, is the guide and carrier of all her designs and actions.

A woman, particularly when her position encourages her to vent her passions, is capable of ravaging the whole earth if she had the chance, and is capable of watching calmly as rivers of blood are flowing, and of spreading misery everywhere. It suffices her to know that her revenge is complete, that her would-be ambition leaves in her satanic soul the sweet realization: You are revenged!

Look at the history of your earth globe’s mankind; since the female sex has ceased to be the subordinate one, since it has begun to step out of its true sphere, namely, home life, how much misery this sex has spread among mankind, be it in family life or in the life of the nation! Although it was this sex which was destined to receive from Me the palm of victory by virtue of its passive might of gentleness over the rash passions of the man, it now triumphs through the tricks of Satan, seduces and leads man, not to victory through love, but into perdition and total decline, through its lust for power! So much so that now I must again intervene and free the man from these chains entwined with thorns which were meant by Me to be roses, and to drive from the female heart these bad and evil passions through misery, poverty and sickness, so that My creation may again get onto the right track where woman shall be on this earth the helpmeet of man, the appeasing part, not the domineering and alone commanding one.

I have said all this in advance in order to show you what has become of the female sex, endowed by Me with so many noble qualities, and that only in few hearts there is room left for better feelings than ambition and love of finery.

I have shown you how a spark, little noticed in youth, once kindled into a fire can cause untold misery around it, so that you may realize what you have to shun yourselves and what you shall protect your children against.

Let us now view the picture from another side, namely, how I actually created woman and what she was endowed with so as not to be a hindrance to My design.

I will now present to you woman in her four phases, how she should be, how she can only on this road become My child and thus completely fulfill her task on this earth.

I have already given you a hint as to what must be observed in the upbringing. Endeavor to preserve a girl’s heart gentle, awaken in time love, the all-appeasing love for Me and for the fellowman, and arouse compassion in her. For when a heart learns to feel another’s sufferings, it tries to help as much as possible. Compassion keeps the heart soft and ready to help where it can and eliminates many other inordinate desires and thoughts that would otherwise usurp all the space in a proud heart.

Compassion leads to esteem, equality with the fellowman, and is diametrically opposed to pride, which is ruled by the delusion to be something better than others.

Compassion, this flower out of the crown of neighborly love, sweetens life, soothes every pain and gives comfort in all circumstances. And exactly whom did I endow with more means to exercise this compassion in the most effective way?

Did I not endow you, My lovely female children, with the most beautiful, softest forms, soft facial contours, soulful eyes whose glance, moved to tears by compassion, none of the stronger sex can resist?

Did I not endow you with a softer voice, whose endearing tone should breathe balm onto the wounds of others?

And to what use do most of you put all this! I must turn away My eyes from this picture which I could unroll before your gaze if I wanted to describe what is now being perpetrated with these divine gifts, which is truly not in My honor! But enough of this; let us return to our woman as I created her.

So watch over these most dangerous traits in the youthful heart of a girl. Once she has become a virgin it is too late even to think of eradicating wrongly guided urges. For in this flowering phase the female heart races with full sail towards its passions, namely, the as yet not clearly recognized status as mother and lifelong companion of a man. There she either sees all her glorious ideas of a domestic life realized and in the harbor of family life is able to think of other joys; or she is disappointed with everything, has to listen to the naked truth which she may never have heard before from the one mouth from which, she used to think earlier, only milk and honey would flow towards her. And if it should indeed be so, it is a just payment for the wrong upbringing the girl or virgin has received, for the harm of which the responsibility lies with the parents rather than the child.

However, it is precisely through the burden of someone else’s fault that one becomes wise, and thus the harsh reality perhaps mellows the passions of a newlywed and she will, as a mother, wiser through experience, not bring up her children in the same way she herself had been brought up.

Thus I always guide the erring hearts through personal disagreeable experiences back to the spot from where they should not have strayed earlier.

Then the mother by the child’s sickbed looks up to Me, turning her heart away from the vain things of the world and going within; and she often realizes with a shudder how desolate and empty it is there. These are then her days of trial and resignation, and while the virgin believed the merry life would continue undiminished in married life, instead of nights spent amid dance and pleasure she finds joyless days and nights full of sorrow, troubles of unimagined significance.

The eye, once moist with tears of joy and sending the first look of love to her life’s companion, may now be again full of tears by the sickbed or deathbed of a darling. There the tears of joy led away from Me and My words, but the tears of sorrow are the first road signs back to Me. Then I often stand with outstretched arms in a solitary chamber beside a mourning mother, see the mother-heart bleed, see her hopes collapse like a pack of cards, and – o fatherly joy! From the ruins of the dashed hopes a heavenly flower shoots up; it is the flower of faith and of the quiet surrender to My will.

That which had not ever been possible through pleasures and worldly amusements, that which had in vain rebounded from the deaf ears of the girl and virgin, here at the sick-bed of a child it begins to blossom. What even love failed to achieve, fear has accomplished; it restored to Me a heart which in different circumstances would have been lost.

Do you, My dear children, now know My designs and that I also know how to lead My not so tractable children?

In the great hubbub of life I often let many of your sex stagger from one entertainment to the next, from one enjoyment to another. However, rest assured, whenever I am concerned about saving a soul, I detect the moment and the little bird which hitherto freely and merrily had been whirring about in the air of pleasures, sits there with drooping wings and completely forgets that it has wings to escape the earth because that which it loved best is bound to the earth.

So the mother continues on her path of thorns, is seldom awarded for that which she has endured for her children, but for this very reason she realizes best the vainness of the world and of her erroneous ideas and wrong habits and gradually turns to Me. And when once all things sexual have been put to rest, the woman either begins to find a better support in her earlier less appreciated life’s companion or she will seek support solely with Me, where she will find enough solace and help.

Therefore, My dear children! You, most of whom have already trodden the path of tears and suffering, you, on whom I have taken mercy, giving you My word, do not lose heart! You will not be charged so highly for your past as one or the other perhaps believes, and I will sweeten your future as far as possible, lest you forget Me and My teaching.

Let this be said to you for your solace by Him, who loves and blesses you like all His children! Amen.”

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· THE IDEAL MOTHER DOES NOT WORRY ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS: SHE SUBMITS THEM TO GOD

She does not worry about her daughter either – whom shall she marry. She rests on the All-loving Father who has a promise about this, to quote:

“Tell the fearful mothers not to raise their daughters to be afraid of men and the world. For what one fears one blindly obeys when the temptation arises and those who are feared have an easy victory. Let them teach their daughters rather to respect and love Me that I may be the victor and they despise the world and least on My boundless love. They shall not take them to public places to find a husband, but to Me. Let them bring them to Me and I tell you: Not one of their desires shall remain unblessed and unsatisfied. For I am a rich God who has plenty of everything which He can -and will- give in abundance.”[9]

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Poverty is not something to be worried about as well. Read the most reassuring promise of our most-loving Father.

“The poor shall not beg at the doors of the rich where they experience the lot of stray dogs and their hearts are turned to sorrow and bitterness. They shall come to Me with great confidence, and I shall refresh them all. I shall give load to the hungry and drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked and heal the sick. The lame shall leap like a hart, the leper shall be cleansed, the blind will see and the deaf hear, and I will make the weak stronger than a lion. The timid shall become bolder than a colt and the aged shall find rest. The poor is My closest brother, I care for him. Therefore, the dogs shall not debase him, for the rich of the world are brothers of Satan and children of the devil in hell.”[10]

Especially in times of sickness, disillusionment and weakness, we should not worry about. He is available with His all-loving help. Of that you, as I am, can be fully assured.

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· THE IDEAL WOMAN LISTENS TO AND KEEPS HERSELF CLOSE TO GOD

“Whoever wishes to talk with Me, let him come to Me and I shall lay the answer in his heart. But only the pure whose heart is full of meekness shall hear the sound of My voice.

And he who prefers Me to all the world and loves Me like a tender bride her bridegroom, with him I shall walk arm in arm, and he will always behold Me like a brother his brother, and as I beheld him from eternity, before he was.

Tell the sick, they shall not grieve about their sickness, but turn to Me in all earnest and trust Me completely. I shall comfort them, and a stream of the most precious balm will flow into their heart, and the fountain of eternal life will inexhaustibly manifest within them. They will recover and shall be refreshed like the grass after a downpour.

Tell those who seek Me: I am the true 'everywhere' and 'nowhere'. I am everywhere where people love Me and keep My commandments and nowhere where I am only praised and worshipped. For is not love more than prayer and the keeping of the commandments more than worship? Verily, verily, I say to you: He who loves Me worships Me in spirit, and he who keeps My commandments is the one who truly reveres Me. But only he who loves Me can keep My commandments, and the one who loves Me has only one commandment - that he love Me and My living Word which is the true everlasting life.

Tell the weak from My mouth: I am a powerful God. Let them all turn to Me and I shall perfect them. Of the flycatcher I shall make a lion-tamer, and the fearful shall destroy the world, and the mighty of the earth shall be scattered like chaff.”[11]

Therefore, she praises Him and thanks Him from the depth of her heart. She loves Him with all her heart, with all her soul and with all her might.

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Problems about husband, about the future of the children? No one to find help in times of sickness? Poverty? Anxiety? Emptiness? Fear? Worry? She prefers to “Cast all these cares to God for He cares for you.”[12]

And Jesus said, “Cast your burdens upon Me, those who are heavily laden. Come to Me all of you who are tired of carrying heavy load. For the yoke I will give you is easy and My burden is light. Come to Me, and I will give you rest.”[13]

She concentrates on bearing the light burden [works of love] of Christ and carry His easy yoke which is His commandment of love and cast to Him all your heavy burdens: fear, worry, anxiety, anger, hate, hatred, and all negative thoughts, feelings or emotions.

And it will be alright!

FOR GOD LOVES HER!

AND TO HER HE PROMISES: I’LL NEVER LEAVE YOU, NEVER FORSAKE YOU. I WILL BE YOUR HELPER AND YOUR FRIEND. FEAR NOT THE THINGS THAT SOME MEN CAN, FOR I WILL BE WITH YOU TIL THE END…

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[1] Isaiah 3:16-26

[2] Isaiah 4:1

[3] Isaiah 32:9-14

[4] 1 Peter 3:1-6

[5] Great Gospel of John V/10:6-7, 11

[6] Secrets of Creation, through G. Mayerhofer

[7] 1 Peter 3:1-6

[8] Great Gospel of John V/10:1-13

[9] Household of God I/2:2

[10] Household of God I/2:3

[11] Household of God I/1:1-5

[12] 1 Peter 5:7

[13] Matthew 11:28-30